Friday, August 11, 2023

It is All a Conspiracy

 Sometimes an event could have a giant impact on the world we live in, but not have a similar cause.  A disgruntled man takes aim from a six floor window and a popular President loses his life, terrorists discover an easy way to wreak havoc in the United States and iconic buildings are destroyed or damaged, a virus jumps from animals to humans and a world-wide pandemic ensues.  For some these kinds of events demand in their minds a larger genesis or reason.  So they create a story of a hidden cabal of individuals that planned this out for nefarious reasons.  It is often not sure who did it, sometimes the ideas are several different groups.  Even worse when pressed, the why is often an amorphous answer that may or not make sense with reality.  We call these views of the world through the Picasso colored glasses conspiracy theories.  

Conspiracy theories all link to each other by the common thread that there exist a group or groups that want to control us by manipulating the world in ways big and small.  The big events are covered up by their partners in governments and the media.  This notion is that most people are sheep who just believe what they told but the conspiracy theorists have inside knowledge.  What is somewhat interesting is that there is even a conspiracy theory about term conspiracy theory.  There are those that say the term was invented by the CIA to discredit people who challenged the prevailing story of the assassination of John F. Kennedy.  People swear by this but in fact the term appears in print as early as 1863 in reference to a wild idea of how England should engage with the combating armies in the American Civil War.  On January 11th in the New York Times the term is used to reference the idea that the British Elite would look to support one side to help make the young reforms that led to the United States government fail.  Thus take over the country once again.  There are also printed accounts using the term in the 1870s and early 1900s.  

Conspiracy theorists for decades made their pitches to like minded individuals or people like me who dive down rabbit holes when I grow interested in a topic.  For example I have read, watched and listened to so much material on the Kennedy assassination that it seems like everyone was in Dealey Plaza with a gun and a plan.  When in fact, if you take a sober look at the events of November 22, 1963 the only conclusion is that Lee Harvey Oswald, a complicated and disturbed man, looking for some personal value, shot and killed the President of the United States.  

I will grant that the are in fact conspiracies that take place.  Efforts to obfuscate the facts to outright lying to meet an end.  But there is a difference between a conspiracy and a conspiracy theory.  Conspiracy theories take things that have a rational or easily examined cause and weave an elaborate and often ridiculous plot to explain the event.  

Conspiracy theories have looked to the government as the bad actor in the conspiracy but there is always a hint at something bigger than a single government.  Somehow there is an elite group of wealthy individuals who control banks, money supplies, even the necessities of life who are really pulling the strings.  The government is just another puppet, either willing or ignorant.  This has in recent centuries boiled down to being led by The Jews.  Driven by bigotry and often a sense that someone is keeping them down, people bought into conspiracy theories because it made them feel better about themselves and for some feel like they were special.  In this one area they knew the truth and everyone else was a fool.  So often when you challenge a conspiracy theorist the response is either that you are part of their conspiratorial worldview or too dumb to see the truth. 

In recent years however conspiracy theories have become far more partisan.  People are promoting and supporting certain wild conspiracy theories because it slips nicely into their view over who their candidate for office is.  Politicians and their surrogates have noticed and thus promote those conspiracy theories that garner them support.  Sometime directly and sometimes indirectly, they keep the fire of a nonsensical conspiracy theory alive in the hope of getting votes.

Partisanship driven conspiracy theories are dangerous.  In June John Rumpel, a Florida businessman and a Trump supporter was traveling to New York from Tennessee when the plane changed course and found its way over Washington DC's restricted airspace.  Fighter jets were scrambled to intercept but it became clear that no one on-board was conscious.  The plane crashed in Virginia with no survivors and Mr. Rumpel, his adult daughter and granddaughter among the victims.  This type of tragedy is rare but not unheard of.  In 1999, a private jet carrying Payne Steward, a PGA Gold champion, crashed due to decompression in the cabin cause the people on board to not have adequate oxygen.  The people on-board were likely already dead as the plane continued to fly until is ran out of fuel.  It crashed in South Dakota leading to the loss of Stewart and 5 others.  The flight had been intercepted by Military Jets but there was nothing they could do.  But for many in the right wing noise machine the similar tragedy that befell the Rumpel flight was not a simple accident.  No they suggested that the Biden Administration had targeted this plane and it was shot down because Rumpel was a financial supporter of Trump.  They said that the government is coming for Trump supporters.  Similarly this week, a man in Utah had been making wild threats against the various prosecutors who are working on the Trump cases as well as the Attorney General and President and Vice-President.  When confronted by the FBI, which is standard procedure in cases of threats, he told them the next time they come by he would shoot them.  So earlier this week the man made a specific threat to the President who was going to be in Utah so the FBI got a warrant and went to serve and arrest him.  It is still not know exactly what happened but the FBI chose to use deadly force and kill him.  This man had a stockpile of weapons and had on more than several occasions suggest exactly how he was going to use them on his enemies. Again, the right wing noise machine suggested they killed him because he was on outspoken Trump supporter and that he was old and frail and that he wouldn't hurt anyone.  The same people who dredge up instagram posts of unarmed black kids killed by police when they were teens looking violent and call them thugs don't show the pictures of this terrorist from a few days ago with a ghillie suit and sniper rifle saying he is ready to take action.  No for them this killing of a highly armed man is not part of a conspiracy to take out Trump supporters.  This certainly would be a highly inefficient way to do it.  But because the people killed, one by accident and one by law enforcement, were Trump supporters there must be a cabal behind it. 

The danger of this, coupled with the echoes of the Q Anon conspiracies, is that people will see all people opposed to a MAGA policy not only as wrong, but evil.  One roots evil out and what I fear is that there will be more violence, directed at Democrats and Republicans they deem unworthy of the party.  People die in accidents, people die when they challenge the police with weapons, and people die because the world is not perfect.  We don't have to look for the men behind the curtain on everything.  Mostly there is no curtain. 

Thursday, March 2, 2023

I Only Every Saw My Dad Hit My Mom Once

 I only ever saw my dad hit my mom one time. It wasn’t out of anger but frustration. We were in the car, traveling during a terrible thunderstorm.  My dad pulled over as the wipers couldn’t keep up with the rain. My mother was crying and screaming, she wanted to get out of the car to run into the church. The rain, then hail, made the two block walk dangerous and my dad tried to tell her.  She wasn’t able to listen, my dad slapped her, then grabbed her and held her tight.  The storm eventually passed and my dad took us all home, in silence. 

 

We were in the car because whenever a storm came my mother had to get out of the house.

We would leave and go somewhere else, anywhere with people. During the day, if a storm came we would go to the Ames Department store.  We would go inside and walk around, I would mainly look at the toys. We could watch the storm through the big windows to the parking lot but it was impossible to hear the thunder.  


But the real fun came at night.  If a storm was predicted, when we went to bed we would be told to keep our clothes nearby on the floor. Like fire fighters socks in the shoes, pants and shirt handy, we needed to be ready to go when the call came.  


“Wake up, there’s a storm”


We would get up and pile into the car and go out.  Good nights we went to the hospital, the big waiting room that people sat in waiting to visit someone upstairs in a room or being treated in Emergency.  My mom chose there because it was a fallout shelter.  The yellow and black sign that looked like a weird pizza to me, the result of Cold War fears, hung outside the building.  For mom that was safety.  We would go in, climb a set of hard stairs and then sit in plastic covered furniture under the watchful eye of the Pinkerton guard at his desk.  I always tried to getting pennies for the gumball machine and was impressed I got two squares not one round one.

The large window that look out toward the river and the church parking lot gave us a clear view of the storm as it passed. Once, my mother went into the back and came out calmer and more comfortable. She fell asleep on the ride home.

 

If we were in luck however we would go to the all night truck stop at the edge of town,

Aptly named The Edge of Town. There we would cram into a booth as the server brought the children chocolate milk and my parents coffee.  We sat among overnight truckers, drunk college students (Denny’s had not come to the North Country) and often women seeking comfort from a driver or offering it for coin. 


This was my normal.  Storms meant you awoke, went someplace and waited them out.  I didn’t realize how strange that was until college.  When I lived in the dorms I was always surrounded by people so the realization came when I had an apartment and was sharing my bed through a late night storm.  I awoke and quickly turned on the TV to watch the storm information on the weather channel.  I felt anxious and wanted to leave but didn’t know where to go as my companion grunted questions about why I was up and to go back to sleep.  I realized that maybe not everyone reacts to the storms the way my family did.  She fell back asleep in the glow of the TV on mute as I watched the radar show the storm move off to the east.  As the weather quieted I slipped back under the sheets and continued the night.  


Over the years I have mellowed on my reaction to storms.  I watched my son grow up not caring about them.  But I still have to follow them, where they are, where they are going, when the threat is over.  Smart phones allow me to monitor this with stealth I didn’t have before.  I still must be aware of all that is going on.  Storms are always my nemesis and I must conquer them each time they come.  


Now you might ask why I carry this through life.  It is simple.  For my mom every time lightening flashed and was followed by a clap of thunder she was no longer a mother of 7, a wife, a survivor or a warrior that I saw her as most of the time.  She was the small child, one who heard the planes fly overhead in Mannheim 150 times in the years before she was 10 years old.  A child who hid in stairwells and basements and prayed with neighbors that the next bomb wouldn’t destroy their house, their school or their lives.  A child who saw the flashes of light at the city edge and waited for the rolling thunder of the bomb’s concussion as it rolled down the streets in the dark of night.  I have never faced death at the hands of an anonymous pilot dropping explosives on my home, but I inherited the fear that was delivered as well.  I carry with me the scars that she earned as a girl who for her 5th birthday saw her cousin’s house go up in flames from a British incendiary device.  The flash of lightening and the sound of thunder of a simple summer storm carried so much more for my mom, and still today for me.  A legacy of a war fought against an unspeakable evil that spawned this irrational response of punishment on the people of Germany.  My mom is gone, but that punishment lives on in me, a little less pronounced than in her, but still there.  I hope my son didn’t pick up on my reaction to the weather.  I hope my son will be able to sleep through the storms in his life.  But I worry about others.  


As drone strikes rain death from far away on camps in Middle Eastern deserts, as bombs take out both ancient buildings and modern apartments in places like Aleppo and Baghdad. I wonder as cruise missiles shake up the centers of the oldest cities in the world.  I ponder when suicide vests destroy pizza places and concert venues what exactly will their legacy be.  Will there be some mother or father, 20 years from now telling their children to keep their clothes close, there might be storm?  Will those children 40 years from now struggle with the weather like I do, knowing full well it is not rational and yet continuing to live in that manner.  When will it stop, and will we ever have the will to make it stop?  


 


Wednesday, February 1, 2023

Deplorable

When Damar Hamlin was hit during an NFL game, the Buffalo Bills defensive player collapsed on the field.  It was clear this was a very scary moment and after the ambulance took him to a near by hospital the game was suspended, later to simply be cancelled.  But while prayers both on the field, in the stands and across social media began, there was another voice in the ether.  The anti-vax conspiracy theorists, many who had not yet seen the hit, were proclaiming this was somehow related to the Covid 19 vaccination.  Within a day people were saying he was dead and the NFL was covering it up.  As time went on and we learned that Hamlin was recovering, the voices of the conspiracy theorists grew louder. When Hamlin attended the Bills' playoff game but didn't do an interview and was covered for the weather people people started repeating he was dead and they used a body double.  This suggested that the NFL, the Bills, the sports media, and Hamlin's family were all attempting to hide the death of a young man.  When pushed on it the conspiracy theorists would say it was about money.  Somehow they were even able to suggest that President Biden was involved and a long planned trip to Ohio by the President was somehow part of the effort to keep the death quiet.  Now that Hamlin is making public statements these people are even questioning his existence, calling the videos he is making deep fakes or using an actor.  Hamlin is promoting getting trained in CPR and recognizing signs of heart distress and these people are attacking the videos.  

The reason to them:  The vaccine is killing people in large numbers but there is a large cabal stopping the news of this.  They have no real evidence, so they make it up.  What is worse is that anyone who dies at a young age are lumped into this.  Watch any announcement of a death and there will be someone claiming it was the vaccine.  It doesn't matter if the person had a long history of illness, was a likely suicide, or have clear indications of trauma that caused the death.  This has dragged the names of people who lost their lives in tragic ways into their wild fantasy world.  Most recently a 14 year old named Denim Bradshaw.  Bradshaw was a young man at who was riding a bull at a rodeo and was dumped and stomped by the bull.  The trauma caused his heart to stop.  But the facts don't matter they added it to the so-called evidence that something is wrong.  

What is the most disturbing it is that this is not driven by anything more than politics.  It is a right wing driven narrative that populates social media and so-called news channels who are promoting lies and distorted data about the deaths of mostly young people.  Bradshaw's death was a terrible accident but his friends and family have to see people attacking his parents for getting him vaccinated (even though no one knows if he was).  Even worse was the story of a young athlete that died in an apparent suicide being talked about as a vaccine death.  

When Hillary said half the people who supported Trump were a basket of deplorable she appeared to under estimate by a lot.   He and the right wing noise machine have found that there is no real consequences of this kind of behavior.  So I assume it will go on.  I am glad to see Hamlin recovering from his accident, I am sorry for the families who have lost someone and hope they are comforted by friends.  I also would hope that these people who promote this hurtful nonsense find a way to come back to reality.  But that hope is slipping. 


Monday, December 26, 2022

No Jews are Not Trying to Replace You.

 Recently the channel NewsMax, a right wing propaganda producer masquerading as a news network, ran a segment on the American Girl franchise.  During the segment, which I assume was about some aspect of diversity that American Girl is expressing, a man on the panel said he took his daughter to the American Girl store in Rockefeller Center.  He made a point of calling her his white, six year old daughter.  He said the whole point of the store is that a child can go in and get a doll that looks like them and even get the same outfit as the doll.  But when he went there there he said there were no dolls for white girls.  He said that all the dolls were for people of color and it was a weird feeling.  Well, it is a good thing I buy my irony meters in bulk at Costco.  It would have been interesting if the panel had a person of color explain their childhood experience looking for a doll like them.  But what was amazing, during the segment the control room was scrolling through the American Girl catalog.  The vast the majority of the dolls being shown were white.  So this guy was gas lighting us or he forgot to take his tan sunglasses off.  I have walked past this store a few times in my visits to the city but I have never been inside.  I can't say that I noticed the dolls on display but I can't imagine that the store would only have dolls of color.  

The demographics of who visits Rockefeller Center, a tourist area for sure, would include a large percentage of white families.   But this show knows that the vast majority of their audience will never travel to New York, let alone the American Girl store at Rockefeller Center.  The image of New York that this network portrays is a wasteland populated by non-white immigrants and crime.  So they will believe him.  That is the essence of the right wing noise machine model. Ignoring reality even when you have it and give fuel to those who want to believe the worst.  It feeds the narrative that there is a war on white people, a dangerous conspiracy theory that we know leads to violence.  He basically said the grand replacement theory is happening in a toy store and that drives a growing narrative. 

There are many people, including elected officials in Congress, who believe there is a globalist agenda to replace white people in Western Society with immigrants.  The word globalist is often used to avoid calling it a Jewish plot.  Often mentioned is George Soros, a business man and philanthropist who is a billionaire and supporter of progressive movements.  This conspiracy theory has led to the Unite the Right Rally in Charlottesville, Virginia in the summer of 2017 which saw the death of Heather Hire, a woman who was killed by a man driving his car into the crowd of counter-protesters.  This theory has been used as justification for other violent acts including the shooting at a Walmart in Texas, a grocery store in Greater Buffalo and several attacks on synagogues.  

On Christmas eve the Governor of Texas, sent a bus with asylum seekers to the home of Vice-President Kamala Harris in Washington D.C. without notifying anyone he was doing it.  They arrived in the midst of a winter storm with nothing but what they were carrying.  He did this because he sees these legal people petitioning the US for help after leaving their home countries for fear of drug cartels and abject poverty as invaders who will destroy white culture.  He and other republicans have done this in the past and have little or no regard for the lives of these people.  Many have referred to them as vermin.  (Sometimes using language similar to how the Nazis referred to the Jews and Roma people).  

There appears to be a fear among conservatives that their long held seats at the table of power will be diluted by the inclusion of others who are finally being recognized in our culture.  Be it people of color, some immigrant groups, LGBTQ+ individuals or those whose faith is not Christian.  I would argue our strength can only be made greater by the diversity that we embrace.  That our country thrives when many voices can come together and find common ground in building a future.  It isn't always easy, it isn't always going to be what any group wants 100%.  But if our own history has taught us anything, diversity and innovation go hand in hand. 

So as the fear that Jews or others are in some kind of organized effort on a global scale to eliminate White People is driving a segment of the conservative movement.  Anyone who has ever tried to organize a Shabbat dinner by committee will know that is virtually impossible.  But what I say is that if people are asking for a seat at the table, put another leaf in and buy some more chairs.  

May the New Year bring us Joy, Love, Prosperity and Common Sense. 






 







Wednesday, November 9, 2022

What the Midterms Taught Us

There are many things we learned last night and into today as the results of the midterm elections come in.  I want to highlight a few.

1.  Inflation was not the big issue that we were told it was.  The GOP said a red wave was coming and that they could win up to 60 seats in the House of Representatives because of this issue.  That didn't happen and it wasn't for many people top of mind when voting. 

2.  Abortion rights was important to many voters.  Through ballot initiatives, Constitutional changes and who won in some states, it is clear Americans support abortion rights by a majority.  This is something that will continue to be an issue that will influence voting for some time.

3.  Redistricting is more important that good candidates.  In many states redistricting led to candidates being able to pick their voters and thus won.  Florida, led by Ron Desantis, truly worked the process to help the GOP gain House seats.  His re-election also showed he usurped Donald Trump as the leader of the Republicans moving forward and setting up a GOP civil war.  

4.  To that end, Trump is a drag on the GOP.  His hand-picked candidates lost in many areas around the country.  Some in spectacular fashion.  Trump's endorsement did not have the same cache as one would think.  What is amazing is that the election deniers were the worst performers across the country.  So perhaps the era of Trump is over.  

5.  The myth of the liberal media found its demise as well.  We watched in the last few months at CNN, once called the Communist News Network, pivoted so hard to bring in right wing voices in the last few months they cause so much whiplash they hired a in-house neck specialist.  Every major news outlet had pundits saying we were in for red wave.   That didn't happen.

6.  Punditry itself also took a hit.  There are several people who should be eating crow this morning after making outrageous claims about how Biden was in trouble, that people were going to send the White House a message, etc.  This morning those same voices are saying the opposite.  

EDIT:  I almost forgot 7.  Polls are getting worse.  Not because polls don't work, they do.  But because there are dishonest  biased pollsters who create a narrative, picked up by places like RealClearPolitics and Nate Silver and try to sell the outlier (or liar) polls as legitimate.  This had so many expecting a red wave that frankly was never going to happen.  


Our country is still divided.  We will continue to see nonsense in our politics.  There will be some who will say this election was rigged.  (Even if the Democrats lose the House).  But there is hope that we are still the country that our ideals say we are.  Look no further than here.  Tim Ryan's concession speech last night after losing to JD Vance is what we should all strive to be as a country.  Let's hope tonight is a lesson for all of us.  But we continue to stand up for the things we believe is good for our country.   

Friday, October 21, 2022

The Quiet Acceptance of Antisemitism

A candidate for school board in Zionsville, Indiana recently said on social media that not all Nazis were bad.  His argument was that there were good people who were forced to participate in the atrocities during the Third Reich.  This is not exactly true and so that is troubling for a member who wants to shape the school system that has had some problems with antisemitism.   Just to be clear, many participated in the horrors of the Shoah (Holocaust) and the killing of Soviet prisoners of war who weren't forced, but chose to do so.  His policy positions squarely show him to be conservative. 

Ye, formally known as Kanye West, recently posted he was going “death (stet) con 3 on Jewish people,” meaning Defcon which is a defense condition jargon used by the US military.  He suggested that Jews as a group were somehow holding him back and that the real Jews were black people.  He has been clearly supporting the most radical conservative people and policies and was embraced by conservative voices in the media.  

Former President Donald Trump recently threatened American Jews who don't fully support him and the actions of the Israeli government.  He said Evangelical Christians are more supportive of Israel than what he calls Liberal Jews.  He went on to say they  better " their act together" adding "before it is too late".  This brings up a great deal of antisemitic tropes but also the threat has echoes of history.  

This comes as we see Republicans claiming the mantle of Christian Nationalism and some suggesting that Jews have no place in their campaign.  One even attacked the children's school (a Jewish Dayschool) of his opponent suggesting it is elitist.  

While for many of us who hear and see anti-Jewish rhetoric daily from around the world I don't spend a lot of worry about these particular nonsense statements though I think they should be called out.  What worries me is remarkable silence for conservative elected officials and the noise makers who jump on every liberal's criticism against the government actions in Israel or question American support of the Israeli government.  

When we teach about hate focused on us as Jews or on any other group it rarely starts with actions.  Words that become normalized in a society that tend to dehumanize or demonize a group often will lead to violence.  We have seen clear evidence of this around the world as both synagogues and mosques have been attacked by people citing the dog whistle writings and saying of American conservatives.  But it has become almost white noise of conservative parlance these days.  What is amazing is how no one on the right seems to care.  When the marchers in Charlottesville screamed "blood and soil" it was startling to some, but now when the ideology that led to that phrase is discussed in the halls of power as problem facing our country the lack of response is like living in a sensory deprivation chamber.  

I believe this is dangerous.  While some things written and said from the left is antisemitic it always appears there are more voices on the left calling it out, even if it isn't as loud as it should be.  But it is stunning, if a former President Obama were to say a similar thing to what former President Trump we would be deluged with commentary from the same voices who will find a way to make what Trump said seem banal.  

Hate in any form should be challenged, but if the hate is coming from your own house your challenge should be the loudest.  I challenge those on the right to find their voice.  Violence is not only done in someone's name, it is also done in someone's silence. 


 

Wednesday, September 28, 2022

Yom Kippur Lunch, Not A Joke but a Conversation

Emma Goldman was an anarchist political activist in the late 19th and early 20th century in the United States. Fleeing oppression in Russia she came to the US with the idea the it was "the free country, the asylum for the oppressed of all lands."  She quickly realized that oppression of the working class went on in our country as well and she slowly began to become more radical, especially after the Haymarket Square tragedy in Chicago in May of 1886 where a bomb exploded at a rally against police suppression of a strike.  In the aftermath many labor activists were charged and convicted of the violence that would take the lives of several rally goers and police officers.  She realized that she needed to speak out against the working conditions and the brutal actions of what she saw as the ruling class.  But not only did she focus on freeing the body from the oppression she felt as a factory worker and as a woman, but to free the mind of the oppression that she saw was forced on people.  One was that of religion.  While she saw the world through Jewish eyes drawing on the values of emphasizing justice for all, she was a atheist who had no place for Jewish law that was controlling.  She often spoke on Jewish topics, used Yiddish to reach Jewish audiences and found Judaism as a culture to be light to the world.  But when it came to religious practice she found it confining and thus did not create an environment of freedom.  Her open rejection of religious practice led her to promote and participate in a Yom Kippur Picnic in 1907.  A day seen by many as the holiest of the year when Jews fast for 26 hours.  She was encouraging people to gather to eat, in public, in face of religious Jewish authorities that would publicly attack Jews for eating on that day.  It was a challenge that opened eyes of people.  Goldman was a radical that truly made people question the status quo in politics and religion.  Her vision may have been ahead of her time and her legacy is seen in activists today who argue for the rights of many who are oppressed because of who they are.  But Goldman's vision of Judaism not as a strict religion, but as an ethical guide has helped many find a home in Judaism when disagreeing with some of the more traditional views of what it means to be Jewish.  But outrage over something like a Yom Kippur picnic will always exist in the Jewish world, as noted this year.   

 Rabbi Ilana Zietman, according to her biographic blurb,  is a pluralistic rabbi who loves to create Jewish experiences and foster communities that are relevant, thought-provoking and most importantly, welcoming.  She is the community rabbi for GatherDC is a Jewish nonprofit that serves as the one-stop-shop for everything 20s and 30s need to live their best Jewish life.  The goal of the organization is to reach out to young Jews to build relationships between them, connect them with Jewish life they are seeking and the institutions that can help.  Their website, for example, lists over 50 events on Yom Kippur from services at various synagogues from Chabad (A Chasdic Orthodox movement) to mindful Yom Kippur hikes and everything in-between.  But with shades of Emma Goldman, one event is getting Rabbi Zietman and the organization a lot of social media flack. The event is called  GatherDC 2022 High Holidays Intentional Yom Kippur Lunch Meetup, an Rabbi Zietman was promoting it on her account.  The event is described as such:

We know that there are many who do not fast on Yom Kippur for important personal, health, and religious reasons. This is something that should be celebrated because Jewish tradition acknowledges that fasting is just one of several valid ways to observe the holiday. This year, we’re experimenting with organizing a lunch meetup for those who would find it meaningful to gather with other people who also do not fast and even engage in a Jewish ritual to honor the act of intentional eating on this special day. GatherDC will pick a central meeting point on the SW Waterfront following our Alt YK morning experience, where you’ll have time to meet others and Rabbi Ilana for schmoozing and intention-setting before embarking on a self-led lunch excursion on the beautiful waterfront. We’ll be in touch separately with those who sign up. You also do not need to join our morning experience to participate.

Now the idea of eating on Yom Kippur is one of those lines that a lot of Jews feels shouldn't be crossed. Even Jews who have no connection to other prohibitions in Jewish law.  But when I look at this I see a different kind of energy.  There are those who, by Jewish law, must eat on Yom Kippur, if not eating may put your health in danger for example.  There are those who find to concept of fasting meaningless to them and choose not to fast even if they acknowledge the themes of the holiday.  Rabbi Zeitman is trying to find a way to make a space for those people to engage the holiday without feeling like they are on the outside looking in.  She is not Emma Goldman.  

Emma Goldman was a direct attempt to take down religion and religious leadership that she saw imposing rules and restrictions on free thinking people.  Goldman was like an invader in the ancient world that would destroy local temples and use the stones to rebuild a temple to their own gods.  Goldman wanted to use the foundation to build something new while erasing what she saw as oppressive. She maintained some of the visions of Judaism based on justice, but the religion of Judaism she wanted to end.   Rabbi Zietman isn't trying to tear down the proverbial temple.  She is building an approach ramp and creating a new door way in.  Too often there are Jewish people who find it hard to fit into a community and the age group that GatherDC (20s and 30s) find it harder to find a home in many place.  To me it looks like GatherDC and Rabbi Zietman are trying to provide an opportunity for a meaningful Yom Kippur experience, while not judging those who don't follow all the rules. 

There are many who are critical of GatherDC, calling out Rabbi Zietman, even suggesting she is not a real rabbi.  Many who don't appear to have problems violating the Shabbat as many of the posts appeared on a Saturday.  I would encourage them to meet with those who view Yom Kippur and other holidays differently.  On Passover we hear of the 4 children, each approaching the narrative of freedom differently.  One has been called Wicked because that child doesn't see the story as meaningful, but that child is there to hear the story.  There are many who think of a 5th child, one who isn't even at the table.  One who can't hear the story, one who cannot even reject what is meaningful because they will never find a way in.  GatherDC is looking for a way to add a chair at the table for that child.  

While I will fast on Yom Kippur but will not judge those that don't.  I find meaning in the fast, and that is what our tradition and frankly all traditions should be about, meaning.  In the end, Rabbi Zeitman may find a way to make meaning for Jews who had not place to do that, and help with self-reflection.  Isn't that what this time of year is about. 



 

Saturday, August 20, 2022

The Enemy of my Enemy Isn't Always a Friend.

In the Torah, Noah is called an Ish Tzaddik, a righteous man.  But the Torah modifies it to complete the line saying he was "blameless in his age".  His age was the age of the people who were lawless  and corrupt.  The ancient rabbis took note and suggested that Noah was righteous, only when measured against those of his age.  Further commentary and even the Torah reveals that Noah was far from perfect.  

I think of this when I hear people speak of Liz Cheney.  Cheney is an arch-conservative whose father was once referred to as Darth Vader.  Cheney has a history of voting against virtually everything Democrats hold dear.  In fact, when she first ran for Congress she made anti-gay statements despite her sister being a lesbian.  Cheney is not a friend of the left, or Democrats or even moderates.  But after she lost her primary to a Trump supported candidate who is less than qualified to serve in the Senate, a number of voices on the left were praising her.   Praising her for the simple fact that she is one of the few Republicans who are publicly denouncing the former President's complete and utter lie about the 2020 election and helping to investigate the January 6, 2021 attack on the Capitol and by extension our very Democratic government.  An attacked by people called to Washington D.C. by the former President and ginned up by many of his most ardent supporters.  

The old adage that politics makes strange bedfellows was used to describe this situation but I would argue this is not about politics.  It is about embracing the reality that the 2020 election was fairly won by President Biden or the fantasy of wild conspiracies that somehow an elaborate system of cheating took place.   I do have respect for anyone on the right who stands up to Trump and is criminal and antidemocratic attempts to hold on to power or regain it.  Early on there were many who found Trump to be unfit to serve as President.  Reince Pribris famously said early in the 2016 election season, as then chair of the Republican party, that as Trump gained ground on the primary field he was pouring Bailey's on his breakfast cereal.  He then went on to be his Chief of Staff.  Only to be neutered by Trump and eventually forced out.  Many on the right called themselves never Trumpers who know support him and what we are calling Trumpism, the authoritarian effort that is reshaping our system of government.  So Cheney, who loses her seat in Congress, should be seen as a profile in courage.  She could have denounced the investigation on January 6th instead of joining it.  But she did what so few others have, put country over party or power.  

As we watch the 2022 election cycle we have seen candidate the GOP, through the former President has promoted more candidates that have no business anywhere near making our nation's laws.  In Georgia, Hershel Walker, a man with a violent domestic violence past and seems to understand little of how government works and has trouble with complete thoughts even in his own ads.  In Pennsylvania, a famous quack doctor who actually lives in New Jersey is running on his celebrity but a recent attempt to attack the high cost of food and blame the President.  It was so cringe from his misnaming the store, to him saying the wrong prices while attempting to buy items for crudités.  Also in Pennsylvania there is a candidate who has someone working for his campaign who doesn't want, even if conservative, Jews in the campaign.  Because all over the country the Republicans are embracing Christian Nationalism.  One currently sitting member of Congress has suggested we should do away with the the separation of church and state.  These are just a few of the highlights that have gone so far as the calling the execution of people who oppose Trumpism. 

I understand the desire and comfort one might have to embrace Representative Cheney as she stands in a small group of conservatives who haven't fallen under the spell of Trumpism.  But we should be aware of who she is and not put all our faith in the standing up against those who have decided to jettison the values of the party and in fact the country.  We can feel bad that a person who continues to live in reality is no longer going to serve.  But the idea that she should serve in the Biden administration or be on the next Democratic ticket is nonsense.  We can support her in her efforts to find the truth.  We can admire her efforts to maintain her values in the face of the  rotting of party that she grew up in.  But lets be careful how close we get to what we have always fought against.  As in everything, the enemy of my enemy isn't always a friend.  

Tuesday, August 9, 2022

Criminal Behavior Has Consequences

 Yesterday, the FBI executed a search warrant at Mar-A-Lago, the current home of former President Trump, in what is reported an investigation of him taking documents with him when he left office.  The FBI, headed by a Trump appointed director, organized evidence of crime to bring before a Federal Judge, appointed by former President Trump, to obtain the warrant.  This is not something that we have seen in our history but that doesn't make it wrong or unAmerican.  For all those saying this is somehow us devolving into a third world country or a banana republic I would say this is the most American thing that could happen.  

The former President was accused of taking Presidential records to his home at Mar-A-Lago and the National Archives asked the FBI to investigate when they weren't returned.  There is some reporting that some of the records may contain highly classified documents that could damage our national security if they fell into the wrong hands.  Others are just normal records that by law must remain in the custody of the Federal government.  Since there has been little to no effort to return all the documents intact the FBI collected evidence and filed an affidavit with the court to obtain the warrant it executed.  That is the process and what is good about it is that even a former leader is not immune from the rule of law.   

We have never been to this place because we have never had a President who so brazenly flouted the rule of law both before, during and after his time in office.  In fact we never had a President call a gang of supporters to Washington DC to disrupt the peaceful transfer of power.  This is not a typical thing, that doesn't make it a politically motivated investigation.

For months, a lot of people on the left have been asking why the Attorney General is not moving faster to prosecute Donald Trump for what they see as obvious crimes.  The response from many on the right is the reason why.  When you are in power and your political opponent is under investigation it gets tricky because it has the appearance of being political.  The Department of Justice has worked really hard to not appear to be doing that and even worse get over their skis in pursuit of a crime.  They knew regardless of how locked down the information was, how damning the evidence is and how many on the right support the moving forward with an investigation or charges the right wing noise machine and the Trump sycophants in Congress will call it retaliation or worse.  House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy has already threatened the Attorney General is the Republican take back the House.  Some on the right have been more measured. Senator Tim Scott of South Carolina said "We need to let this play out and see exactly what happens. But we should have been stunned and surprised and shocked with what happened yesterday," That earned him many on the web calling him a RINO, an acronym that used to me Republican In Name Only.  Today for many it means anyone who doesn't give full throated support of Trump.  There are voices on the internet saying they are coming for Republicans who aren't in the streets to Trump.  This is why it is difficult to investigate, charge and convict a political figure when they are of the opposition party and may be the nominee for President.  

Is Trump guilty of violating not only the Presidential Records Act but bringing seriously classified material to his home and out of government control.  No one really knows.  What we do know is that he had a history of destroying documents he was supposed to preserve.  That is played fast and loose with classified information and some reported caused an important human asset in Russia to have to leave the country quickly.  We know that flushing documents down the toilet is part of a new book on the Trump White House (which begins to answer the question why he was obsessed with low-flow toilets).  This execution of the warrant may lead to serious charges.  It may lead to the former President's lawyers turning everything over.  It may go nowhere if the agents, who spent hours at his home, got what they came for.  What I do know is that those screaming about their outrage the loudest don't know either and they are damaging the image of the country almost as much as the fact that the FBI felt the need to issue this kind of warrant on a former President.  

So what I would say is this:  We have a Department of Justice that will move forward with this investigation and I certainly hope that as they do they report appropriately to Congress when warranted.   I hope that if the President is found by a Grand Jury to have committed a crime that a fair and impartial jury will judge him without a lot of noise from those on the right.  I don't expect any of that.  Months ago I told someone when and if the DOJ did make an aggressive move in the investigation of any of Trump's alleged criminal behavior there will be ignorant outrage and threats of violence and that is why they are moving slowly.  I didn't realize just how bad it would be.  But in the words of a man that I fear will probably be retracting them by the time you read this We need to let this play out and see exactly what happens.

Thursday, May 26, 2022

How Does It Get This Far?

Another elementary school has suffered a tragedy that should not happen with the frequency that it does in this country.  A teenager fought off police to enter the building and slaughter 21 people, mostly children.  Children, whose bodies were so abused by the bullets, could only be identified by DNA.  While many of the children in the one classroom are dead, the ones who survived are deeply wounded, some physically, all emotionally.  This happened on a Tuesday and by the weekend another story will push it off the front page.  Like so many before it is a few survivor victims, family members and a handful of elected officials who will remind us, but often they don’t get the forum they deserve.  It is clear we have given up on trying to keep kids safe in order to not even do some reasonable and Constitutional restrictions of gun ownership.

Instead, we run children through drills to deal with the possibility of an active shooter in their school.  Those too are traumatizing.  Children have suffered psychological damage after such drills.  On twitter one father told how his Kindergarten student was taught that if they are near the door as a shooter comes in to wave their arms at the shooter and throw things, so their classmates might have a chance to escape.  We are asking 5 year olds to put themselves in harm’s way to save others.  Another comment mentioned the fact that if a student is outside the classroom when an active shooter is in the building, you must not let them in the room.  Even if they pound on the door and start screaming. One adult who remembers being caught outside the room during one such drill was so unnerving (he didn’t know it was a drill since his school did them by surprise) he needed therapy.  “The life of the many must outweigh the life of the few or the one” should never have to be a 1st grade motto.

 When events like this occur the camps are already in place.  Too often if you raise a concern using the latest example of a shooting you are told to not politicize it.  If you talk about common sense gun reform you are attacked for wanting to take everyone’s guns away.  If you discuss the gun at all the clap back is we need better mental health or criminals will still get guns.  However as I write this the shooting in Buffalo and in Uvalde were committed by 18 year olds with no criminal background to speak of and their mental health issues seemed to be ignored or go unseen.  They both had easy access to guns and in fact in Uvalde, the shooter had access directly due to the fact that the law was changed so someone his age could buy the weapons he used with no real questions asked.  The law stopped him from buying it sooner, he waited until it was legal.  A law that not long ago would have prevented him from buying the weapons until he was 21, but the current state government was embarrassed that more guns weren’t being purchased in their state. 

There is no panacea for this, I know that by the time this is read there will likely be another mass shooting.  But we can put up speed bumps to perhaps find a way to prevent it.  I don’t want people not to be able to own and use fire arms.  I know why there is a second amendment and why the founder felt the need for a state based way of responding to tyranny.  I know what it is like to have a loved one murdered in my home. I know that guns are both a way of defending oneself, a hobby, and for some a way to feed their family.  We shouldn’t want to ban all guns.  That is not what most people want.  But most people want to find some way to find a way to make it harder for people who shouldn’t have weapons to get them.  Simply raising the age one can purchase certain weapons, limiting high capacity magazines and universal background checks.  I would love to have waiting periods for buying more than one weapon but that is a tougher thing to get passed and may get too close to the 2nd amendment.  Calls to repeal the Second Amendment, by the way, are non-starters.  It is that kind of rhetoric that is as bad as those who think “cannot be infringed” means there are no rules.  Both do not help the debate.   

There is also a cultural issue in our country that can’t be denied.  We fetishize guns and that has to change.  Be it the way guns play a role in cultivating an image in parts of the entertainment industry, or those whose family holiday card includes everyone holding a rifle this is not healthy. 

Little kids should not have to make a split second decision to Run, Hide, Fight.  They shouldn’t have to think like a forward battalion in war zone deciding who will live and who will die.  They shouldn’t have to know how to see a classmate so destroyed by bullets that even their parents can’t recognize them.  We can work together to fix this.  We can find a way.  

Tuesday, April 26, 2022

I am Not a Biologist

 When Ketanji Brown Jackson, the latest Supreme Court Justice, was asked in her confirmation hearings to define a woman, she replied "I am not a Biologist".  Of course this made the right wing of the country set their hair on fire.  The answer was terse to a question that was way outside of the discussion.  Another culture war question from a party that has devolved into discourse worthy of a social media comment section.  But her answer does make sense.  It is far harder to define what is a woman or man as the long known diversity of human sex, sexuality and gender becomes more mainstream.  About 30 years ago I helped organize a conference on the Cultural Construction of Sexuality.  This looked at the then changing view of homosexuality, bisexuality, polyamory and what we called the heterodoxy of our culture.  It explored the wide variety of gender expressions, sexual attractions and the overall view of sexuality at the time.  I am surprised that an entire generation has grown up since then and we still are having the same discussions.  

This question was likely prompted by the recent win by a female transsexual college athlete.  So how do you define a woman.  Well by looking at her.  No, you can see an expression of gender when you see someone, but you know nothing about a person's sex just by seeing them in public.  Fully clothed.  Virtually everyone has encountered someone where they assumed a sex and made a mistake.  Now we are probably hardwired to tried to identify the person we are looking at as a potential mate and look for attractive features.  But we know those can be faked and disguised.  There is also the question of non-gender conforming people whose appearance could not fully define one way or another.  This is not as uncommon as you think and hasn't been for a long time.  So mere physical appearance isn't a good indicator.

Now, for some, it is whether a penis is present.  You will hear this a lot.  If someone has a penis they are male.  In most cases that is true.  But it would also make the opposite true, without a penis means female.  Here is the problem.  When a child is born sometimes their physical appearance is unclear, or worse undeveloped. In the Dominican Republic there are children known as  Guevedoces , which effectively translates as "penis at twelve". These are boys born with what looks like a vulva and vagina.  At puberty they develop a penis and tentacles descend.  So now they are girls for their entire life, brought up as such and suddenly are not boys.  There are also cases were an injury causes the removal of a penis does the make someone a woman.  Those big eunuchs of the past would be woman by that definition.  

So some say the ability to give birth makes one a woman.  Well, there are many women incapable of giving birth, does that make them men?  Senator Josh Hawley used this definition and was immediately stymied by the fact that post-menopause woman can't have children.  Do they become something else?  

So genetics is the answer right?  XX is a woman, XY is a man.   Well it isn't that simple.  You see there are six fairly common genetic possibilities in the human genetic code for sex chromosomes.  They are:  

X – Roughly 1 in 2,000 to 1 in 5,000 people (Turner’s syndrome )

XX – Most common form of female

XXY – Roughly 1 in 500 to 1 in 1,000 people (Klinefelter's symdrome)

XY – Most common form of male

XYY – Roughly 1 out of 1,000 people

XXXY – Roughly 1 in 18,000 to 1 in 50,000 births

Each of these has their own different expression and in some cases, like Klinefelter's, a person may not know their genetic make up or that they have anything wrong in their genes and it is not uncommon.  So genetics might not be the answer either without making some subjective discussion.

Couple this with the fact the gender and sex are not the same thing, that for about 100 years we have been able to perform sex reassignment surgery and in very recent times we are returning to a time when gender expressions were far more comfortably diverse, the question requires even more than a biologist.  

Human sexuality, sex, gender and social interactions are all complicated.  Saying it is simple doesn't make it so.  Real fear of this diversity is more of a problem that if someone wants to redesign their body and outward appearance to match their mind.  

It is difficult to make a lot of change quickly for many people.  But the fact that members of the Senate are trying to use it as a cudgel to divide the country is disgusting.  I would hope that as a culture we can embrace the diversity that exists in the human condition and not continue to force people to hide who they are.  In the meantime, I am glad that Justice Jackson is confirmed on the court.  Maybe next time we won't have to deal with this nonsense.   


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